Upcoming Holidays

High Holidays 2020 | 5781

This year, Bet Shalom Congregation is shifting to a hybrid model for the High Holidays. We are excited to offer in-person and virtual experiences. We are also providing age-specific events and services. A majority of our services will be pre-recorded, and we have limited space for in-person events. While there is no charge for our services and events, we always appreciate voluntary donations of any amount which helps us continue to offer many programs to the community. 

For more information, links, and sign-ups, please email info@betshalom.org. Shana tova!

Passover with Bet Shalom

Bet Shalom Pre-Seder Live Bingo and Song Session, (Live on Zoom, 5:00 PM, Tuesday, April 7)
Here are the Bingo cards. There are 20 choices – choose ONE card per player to print so you can join in the fun.

Bet Shalom Community Passover Seder, (Live on Zoom, 6:00 PM., Tuesday, April 7)

Check back for links and recordings! Questions? Email amy.yoelin@betshalom.org.

Passover Resources

What can I eat on Passover?

Many people clear out all forms of chametz (food that has leavening in it) from their homes as they prepare for Passover.  If this is part of how you prepare, consider donating all unopened packages of food with chametz in it to the ICA or a food shelf in your neighborhood.   What is permissible to eat has to do both with “custom” and with “Jewish Law.”  In Reform Judaism, long standing family custom often carries more emotional sway than Jewish law and can be even more restricting than Jewish law.

For more on this, here is a “Guide to Eating on Passover” from the Union for Reform Judaism.

 Is Passover 7 or 8 days?

“Seven days you shall eat unleavened bread, and on the seventh day there shall be a festival of Adonai.”  Exodus Chapter 13, verse 6.

Reform Judaism follows, as does the modern Jewish calendar in Israel, exactly what is written in the Torah. As you can see in the quote above from the Book of Exodus, Passover was intended to be seven days, but because of an ancient calendaring problem, Conservative and Orthodox communities add an additional day to make Passover eight days. That ancient calendaring snafu was cleared up hundreds of years ago.

Unless you have a family tradition of adding the additional day, you may return to eating chametz on the evening of the seventh day at night.

For more information, CLICK HERE.

Videos from Our Clergy

Fishing for Gefilte with Rabbi Locketz

Making Matzvah with Rabbi Locketz

Make Your Own Playdough Seder Plate with Rabbi Crimmings



Sunday, March 8
Purim Shpiel + Carnival
10:30 AM

Monday, March 9
Spiel and Megliah Reading, followed by Adult Oneg
7:00 PM


Shabbat Chanukah Service
Friday, December 27
Kabbalat Panim with latkes, dreidels, and music: 5:15 PM
Service with Student Choir: 6:00 PM

Soul-Song Circle and Havdallah: November 16 at 7:30 pm

Join  Cantor Schwartz before Shabbat departs for an evening of shirah, soulful community song. Add your voice to the singing of beloved, easy-to-learn prayer-melodies and songs- some without words, others with highly accessible Hebrew or English texts.  Participants are encouraged to bring wine, desserts, snacks or beverages to share.


 וְחַ֤ג שָׁבֻעֹת֙ תַּעֲשֶׂ֣ה לְךָ֔ בִּכּוּרֵ֖י קְצִ֣יר חִטִּ֑ים וְחַג֙ הָֽאָסִ֔יף תְּקוּפַ֖ת הַשָּׁנָֽה

You shall observe the Feast of Weeks, of the first fruits of the wheat harvest; and the Feast of In Gathering at the turn of the year.  – Exodus 34:32

Our tradition teaches us that the holiday of Shavuot – the Feast of Weeks, which occurs 49 days after the beginning of Passover recounts the culmination of the journey the Israelites took from servitude to Pharaoh to their acceptance of Torah.  That journey…those 49 days…marks one of the greatest advances our ancestors experienced…from the lowest of lows in Egypt to the highest of highs of Torah on Sinai.

Service Schedule

Saturday June 8, 7:00 PM Shavuot/Confirmation
Sunday June 9, 10:00 AM Shavuot Festival Service and Yizkor

If you are planning to attend services on Sunday and would like to request that a name be read during the memorial portion of the service, please email marilyn.ruby@betshalom.org.


And it is on this holy day that Reform Judaism assigned the celebration of Confirmation.  As some of you may know, Confirmation was borrowed by the early Reformers in Germany, in 1810, from Protestant Christianity as a way of instituting a communal celebration for our emerging young adults and future Jewish leaders.  Some communities over time even favored Confirmation to Bar and Bat Mitzvah which experienced a great decline in Reform Judaism in the first half of the 20th century.  But today at Bet Shalom we believe both are important rites of passage.

As a 13 year old crosses the threshold of Jewish adulthood in becoming a Bar or Bat Mitzvah, they publicly declare that Judaism and the Jewish Community is important to them.  It is a magical moment in the life of the synagogue and our families…but there is no magic involved. A youngster works hard to demonstrate that they have begun to assimilate Jewish life skills that assure us that they will be prepared to take the mantle of Jewish responsibility from those that came before them, care for it, and pass it on to the generation that follows – their own children.  This is symbolized so powerfully as we pass the Torah through all the living generations of a family to the Bar or Bat Mitzvah as they formally take their place as a link in the chain connecting all future generations back to Moses on Mount Sinai.

But it doesn’t end there.  If it does, that chain of connection has been diminished.  And this is the reason we have so much to celebrate on Shavuot…that another generation of young people have hung on and continued to learn Torah and to participate in our congregation.  In high school Judaism can be studied in a very adult way and as our students grow and develop we have the opportunity to help them evolve their beliefs and practices in ways appropriate for adults. We cherish this experience as rabbis and know our students do too.

Studying Torah is a lifelong adventure, in some ways we never actually reach the top of the mountain, but we do pause from time to time to celebrate important moments in the Jewish Life Cycle…and Confirmation is one of those moments.

Confirmation will take place in our sanctuary on Erev Shavuot, Saturday night, June 8 at 7:00 PM.  All are welcome to celebrate our Confirmation Class member as they reenact the receiving of Torah.

Helpful Links


The Torah is waiting for you. Not just to study it. Not just to know it. To live it. This poem, Let Torah, is by Alden Solovy.  CLICK HERE for more information.

Let Torah
Let Torah hold your moments
Carry your days,
Lift your years.
Let Torah fill your hands,
Nourish your breath,
Refresh your heart.
Let Torah sustain your words,
Enliven your deeds
Lead you home.
For Torah is in each life and each generation,
In the yearning for G-d and in G-d’s yearning for us,
The flow of secrets from Sinai,
Divine guidance and grace,
Calling out to you dear sisters and brothers:
‘Awake you slumberers!
Awake you who wander empty and lonely without wonder and awe.
Have you forgotten this precious gift?
Have you forsaken your past and your future?
Have you traded your birthright for empty promises?’
This, then, is G-d’s command:
Let Torah hold you,
Fill you,
Sustain you.
Let Torah guide you into radiance and mystery.
Study and learn,
Question and seek,
Hear and grow,
Lifting your life in sacred service.
Let Torah be your breath and your heartbeat.
Blessed are You, Source of Torah.
© 2012 Alden Solovy and www.tobendlight.com. All rights reserved.