Upcoming Holidays

High Holidays 2019 | 5780

Attendance for the High Holidays at Bet Shalom is open to everyone. We ask that those attending services carry a ticket, which is free of charge to all who request one. Members automatically will receive tickets for themselves in the mail, plus one more to offer to friends and extended family unaffiliated with another congregation.

If you would like to be mailed a free ticket to our services, please email amy.yoelin@betshalom.org.

Service Honors

High Holidays 2019 – FAQ

Selichot | Saturday, September 21

Selichot refers to prayers for forgiveness that are offered during the High Holiday season. The Selichot service is the official beginning of the High Holidays for our congregation and consists of beautiful, moving music and opportunities for contemplation as we embark upon the Days of Awe. Free childcare is available during this program and service, but requires Registration.

7:00 pm Program and Speaker: Turning From–Turning Toward, with Rabbi David Thomas

Local guest Rabbi David Thomas is a master teacher focusing on the Hasidic interpretation of Torah. His topic will be Turning From–Turning Toward, which will frame the High Holiday experience of turning and returning through these Days of Awe.

8:15 pm: Kabbalat Panim – Reception and Nosh

9:00 pm: Selichot Service

Erev Rosh Hashanah | Sunday, September 29

5:30 pm Family Service

This 45-minute service is appropriate for all ages with reader based content designed for families with children in grades 2-5. The service will have many elements of the Rosh Hashanah evening service including music and a story.

8:00 pm: Service

This traditional Evening Rosh Hashanah service features our choir, a declaration of the New Jewish Year, and a sermon. Free childcare is available during this service, but requires Registration.

Rosh Hashanah | Monday, September 30

**Tashlich, the symbolic throwing of our sins into a flowing body of water, will be available throughout the day by the Holocaust Reflection Garden and flagpoles**

8:30 am: Rosh Hashanah Morning Service – Ruach Service

The Ruach Service is led by our Rabbis, Cantor, and Ruach Ensemble, who bring their musical talents all year to our Shabbat Ruach service on the 3rd Friday of each month. This slightly abbreviated service is filled with contemporary music, a Torah service, the sounding of the shofar, and a sermon. Free childcare is available during this service, but requires Registration 

10:15 am: Rosh Hashanah Tot Service (Sanctuary) 

This “pre-reader” High Holiday experience is designed for our youngest children, ages 0-6, and their families. Participants will be treated to a taste of Rosh Hashanah services, including the sounding of the shofar, fun songs, and a story.

10:15 am: Rosh Hashanah Children’s Service (Downstairs Auditorium)

This service, designed for our children in grades 2-5, and their families, contains many elements of our High Holiday services for our students who may not be ready for the other adult service offerings.

11:15 am: Rosh Hashanah Morning Service – Traditional Style

This service is the most traditional of our Rosh Hashanah daytime experiences.  We will explore the depth of our Holiday Machzor (prayer book), hear the Torah reading, a sermon, and traditional selections of music. Free childcare is available during this service, but requires Registration

Kol Nidre | Tuesday, October 8

5:30 pm: Family Service

This 45-minute service is appropriate for all ages with reader based content designed for families with children in grades 2-5. The service will have many elements of the Kol Nidre service including music and a story.

8:00 pm: Service

This traditional evening service for Yom Kippur features our choir, the chanting of Kol Nidre, and a sermon. Free childcare is available during this service, but requires Registration.

Yom Kippur | Wednesday, October 9

8:30 am:  Morning Service – Ruach Service

As on Rosh Hashanah, our Yom Kippur Ruach Service is led by our Rabbis, Cantor, and Ruach Ensemble. This slightly abbreviated service is filled with contemporary music, a Torah Service, and a sermon. Free childcare is available during this service, but requires Registration.  

10:15 am: Tot Service (Sanctuary)

This “pre-reader” High Holiday experience is designed for our youngest children, ages 0-6, and their families. Participants will experience a sampling of the Yom Kippur service, including the chanting of Kol Nidre, singing fun songs together, and a story.

10:15 am: Children’s Service (Downstairs Auditorium)

This service, designed for children in grades 2-5 and their families, contains many elements of our High Holiday services for our students who may not be ready for the other adult service offerings.

11:15 am: Traditional Style

This service is the most traditional of our Yom Kippur daytime experiences. We will explore the depth of our Holiday Machzor (prayer book), hear the Torah reading, a sermon, and traditional selections of music. Free childcare is available during this service, but requires Registration.

2:00 pm: Food for Thought Forum: My Relationship with Israel

Free childcare is available during the forum, but requires Registration.

2:00 pm: 7th-12th Grade Programming – Youth Lounge

Our teens will join together for an engaging discussion about Israel with new CLASP Fellow/Youth Director, Jake Levine.

3:00 pm: Contemplative music in the sanctuary   

3:30 pm: Afternoon worship, including Healing Service, The Afternoon/Minchah Service, Eileh Ezk’rah, Yizkor, Neilah, & Break-the-Fast: Registration necessary (no charge).

Free childcare is available during these afternoon services, but requires Registration.

Sukkot | Sunday, October 13

6:00 pm: Sukkot Service & “Harvesting” our Blessings  

We invite you to bring a basket of fresh fruits or vegetables to our service that will be donated to the ICA Food Shelf. All children and adults will be called up by the rabbis to present their baskets and then be blessed. Following the service, you are invited to join us for Oneg Sukkot and dessert and to visit our sukkah in front of the building.

Lulav/Etrog sets are available from Bet Shalom, but require Advance Purchase.

Simchat Torah | Sunday, October 20

6:00 pm: Consecration

7:00 pm: Adult Simchat Torah Celebration and Happy Hour with live music, drinks and light food. Free childcare is available, but requires Registration.

Sukkot Yizkor | Monday, October 21

11:00 am: Yizkor

Followed by a light lunch.

Soul Song Circle and Havdallah: August 17 at 7:30 pm

Join us for a song circle and havdallah in main lobby led by Cantor Schwartz, celebrating Tu B’av. (Tu B’av marks beginning of time of “consolation” in Jewish calendar). Participants should bring dessert or wine to share. To sign up please RSVP to rachel.calvert@betshalom.org.

Shavuot

 וְחַ֤ג שָׁבֻעֹת֙ תַּעֲשֶׂ֣ה לְךָ֔ בִּכּוּרֵ֖י קְצִ֣יר חִטִּ֑ים וְחַג֙ הָֽאָסִ֔יף תְּקוּפַ֖ת הַשָּׁנָֽה

You shall observe the Feast of Weeks, of the first fruits of the wheat harvest; and the Feast of In Gathering at the turn of the year.  – Exodus 34:32

Our tradition teaches us that the holiday of Shavuot – the Feast of Weeks, which occurs 49 days after the beginning of Passover recounts the culmination of the journey the Israelites took from servitude to Pharaoh to their acceptance of Torah.  That journey…those 49 days…marks one of the greatest advances our ancestors experienced…from the lowest of lows in Egypt to the highest of highs of Torah on Sinai.

Service Schedule

Saturday June 8, 7:00 PM Shavuot/Confirmation
Sunday June 9, 10:00 AM Shavuot Festival Service and Yizkor

If you are planning to attend services on Sunday and would like to request that a name be read during the memorial portion of the service, please email marilyn.ruby@betshalom.org.

Confirmation

And it is on this holy day that Reform Judaism assigned the celebration of Confirmation.  As some of you may know, Confirmation was borrowed by the early Reformers in Germany, in 1810, from Protestant Christianity as a way of instituting a communal celebration for our emerging young adults and future Jewish leaders.  Some communities over time even favored Confirmation to Bar and Bat Mitzvah which experienced a great decline in Reform Judaism in the first half of the 20th century.  But today at Bet Shalom we believe both are important rites of passage.

As a 13 year old crosses the threshold of Jewish adulthood in becoming a Bar or Bat Mitzvah, they publicly declare that Judaism and the Jewish Community is important to them.  It is a magical moment in the life of the synagogue and our families…but there is no magic involved. A youngster works hard to demonstrate that they have begun to assimilate Jewish life skills that assure us that they will be prepared to take the mantle of Jewish responsibility from those that came before them, care for it, and pass it on to the generation that follows – their own children.  This is symbolized so powerfully as we pass the Torah through all the living generations of a family to the Bar or Bat Mitzvah as they formally take their place as a link in the chain connecting all future generations back to Moses on Mount Sinai.

But it doesn’t end there.  If it does, that chain of connection has been diminished.  And this is the reason we have so much to celebrate on Shavuot…that another generation of young people have hung on and continued to learn Torah and to participate in our congregation.  In high school Judaism can be studied in a very adult way and as our students grow and develop we have the opportunity to help them evolve their beliefs and practices in ways appropriate for adults. We cherish this experience as rabbis and know our students do too.

Studying Torah is a lifelong adventure, in some ways we never actually reach the top of the mountain, but we do pause from time to time to celebrate important moments in the Jewish Life Cycle…and Confirmation is one of those moments.

Confirmation will take place in our sanctuary on Erev Shavuot, Saturday night, June 8 at 7:00 PM.  All are welcome to celebrate our Confirmation Class member as they reenact the receiving of Torah.

Helpful Links

https://reformjudaism.org/jewish-holidays/shavuot
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Shavuot
https://www.myjewishlearning.com/article/shavuot-101/

The Torah is waiting for you. Not just to study it. Not just to know it. To live it. This poem, Let Torah, is by Alden Solovy.  CLICK HERE for more information.

Let Torah
Let Torah hold your moments
Carry your days,
Lift your years.
Let Torah fill your hands,
Nourish your breath,
Refresh your heart.
Let Torah sustain your words,
Enliven your deeds
Lead you home.
For Torah is in each life and each generation,
In the yearning for G-d and in G-d’s yearning for us,
The flow of secrets from Sinai,
Divine guidance and grace,
Calling out to you dear sisters and brothers:
‘Awake you slumberers!
Awake you who wander empty and lonely without wonder and awe.
Have you forgotten this precious gift?
Have you forsaken your past and your future?
Have you traded your birthright for empty promises?’
This, then, is G-d’s command:
Let Torah hold you,
Fill you,
Sustain you.
Let Torah guide you into radiance and mystery.
Study and learn,
Question and seek,
Hear and grow,
Lifting your life in sacred service.
Let Torah be your breath and your heartbeat.
Blessed are You, Source of Torah.
© 2012 Alden Solovy and www.tobendlight.com. All rights reserved.

Passover

What can I eat on Passover?

Many people clear out all forms of chametz (food that has leavening in it) from their homes as they prepare for Passover.  If this is part of how you prepare, consider donating all unopened packages of food with chametz in it to the ICA or a food shelf in your neighborhood.   What is permissible to eat has to do both with “custom” and with “Jewish Law.”  In Reform Judaism, long standing family custom often carries more emotional sway than Jewish law and can be even more restricting than Jewish law.

For more on this, here is a “Guide to Eating on Passover” from the Union for Reform Judaism.

 Is Passover 7 or 8 days?

“Seven days you shall eat unleavened bread, and on the seventh day there shall be a festival of Adonai.”  Exodus Chapter 13, verse 6.

Reform Judaism follows, as does the modern Jewish calendar in Israel, exactly what is written in the Torah. As you can see in the quote above from the Book of Exodus, Passover was intended to be seven days, but because of an ancient calendaring problem, Conservative and Orthodox communities add an additional day to make Passover eight days. That ancient calendaring snafu was cleared up hundreds of years ago.

Unless you have a family tradition of adding the additional day, you may return to eating chametz on the evening of the seventh day at night.

Yizkor – A service of remembrance

A Passover Yizkor service  is held on the last morning of Passover in our sanctuary.  Yizkor is the memorial service that we do four times a year (Yom Kippur, Sukkot, Passover and Shavuot).  During this service, we read the names of every person connected to our community who has died since Passover Yizkor last year, as well as any names that members request us to include.