Rabbi David Locketz
Bet Shalom Congregation
Ezeh Hu Gibor – Who is a Hero?Just a
few weeks ago as I was walking through the
grocery store with my family, our daughter
Emma shrieked as we passed by a display of
soups which had labels decorated with
various different superhero cartoon
characters. It was of no surprise to me that
she had to have the Dora The Explorer can of
Campbell’s Chicken Noodle. Dora is a
longtime favorite – practically an obsession
- of hers. What did strike me as surprising
is that she reeled away from the can which
had the image of Batman imposed on its
label. She hid behind my leg and shrieked,
“That one is scary!” Cleary we have
different ideas as to who is a
superhero…although, knowing the best of the
situation…I kept my feelings about Dora to
myself.
A few days later, the two of us were
alone in the car on the way to preschool and
I decided to ask her about heroes. I asked,
“Is Superman a hero?” Her response was
lukewarm, but positive. So asked about
Cinderella. I struck gold. Cinderella is
definitely a hero! When I asked why? She
told me that Cinderella is a hero because
she is nice to everybody.
Who comes to mind when I say the word
hero? We each go to different places I am
sure. From grade school teachers to
Hollywood movie-stars heroism is understood
so differently by everybody. But heroes are
an important part of every culture…I wish we
had more of them to look to.
I. So often we hold people who are in a
position of public intrigue up as models of
character. There is no logical reason for
it. Yet we look at those in the limelight as
people who we should be like…or at least
people we want to be like. Often
unconsciously. The Red Carpet sets standards
for how to dress. Photos at the hairdresser
are so often of figures from Hollywood so
our hairstyles can be “in” and up to date.
But as Rabbi Bradley Artson has written,
“Careers of public figures take on a life of
their own, ebbing and flowing with shifts in
public opinion and the latest values.” Since
when did values ebb and flow?
Unfortunately it is easy to find
examples. One need only to turn to the news
to find constant points of disappointment.
Floyd Landis who was the winner of the most
recent Tour de France tested positive for
steroids. Of course the results have been
contested…but his heroism is tainted
regardless. Mark McGwire – the all-time
single season homerun leader used steroids
during his record breaking season 5 years
ago. This is also contested by many. Barry
Bonds is currently on pace to break the all
time homerun record held by Hank Aaron
sometime next season. Experts are certain he
used steroids and he will likely be tried
for perjury for lying before Congress in his
testimony on this subject. This very topic
was front page news again just yesterday.
We love to watch sports as a society…but
sometimes our sports heroes make it
difficult to palate. Our own Vikings brought
embarrassment on themselves AND on us just
last year with the Loveboat scandal. And
even though owner Zygi Wilf cracked down on
the team with a code of conduct…we have
continued to see reports of indecent
behavior in the news.
But it isn’t just sports figures. We see
it from Hollywood to Washington DC, from
entertainment to politics. Big businesses
that control communal interests including
transportation, medicine, and utilities are
not exempt either. We continue to see those
who rise to great heights of success
publicly fall from grace. Yet we use so many
of them as barometers for our own success
and image. What is sad is that we are never
surprised anymore. It seems commonplace now.
Don’t we have access to better? Don’t we
want to be better? Don’t we deserve better?
What does this tell us about the people who
are often most visible? Is it them, or are
do they represent us?
Sex, money, power, fame, lust, and
addiction seem to motivate all of them. It
may seem like a cynical worldview, but how
many cultural heroes truly exist today? The
Mishnah teaches us that we should not look
at the flask, but what it contains. So often
in the world of public personages…it is
specifically that flask on which we focus.
Should we look up to Mel Gibson, Tom Cruize,
Paris Hilton? What about corrupt politicians
or business people? Do the prominent ones in
the public light sacrifice our values in
order to succeed? Are they successful simply
because they gave up their values? Sometimes
I think so.
I am sure there are those who think,
“What difference does it really make?”
Whether we are conscious of it or not, these
examples creep into our psyches. Mitzvah
goreret mitzvah…aveirah gorreret aveirah.
Good deeds lead to other good deeds and the
same is true for an aveirah…a bad deed….a
bad dugma – example.
There are those in these fields who have
taken on their public role in noble ways.
They pursue their work with integrity and
human kindness devoting a great deal of
resources and time to making the world a
better place. But these actions do not seem
to be as newsworthy. We don’t hear much
about the good…we usually hear the breaking
news focused on the bad…that is what makes
it to the magazine covers on the newsstand.
I wish we heard more of the good…we need
more cultural heroes who conduct themselves
in honorable ways.
II. As eye-catching as the internet can
be…and magazine covers…and other forms of in
your face media that promote our Hollywood
heroes…there are many public heroes that we
as Jews can look up to who go virtually
unnoticed. Or who have been forgotten over
time. They are people who when analyzed…are
absolutely heroic…people who make us want to
be better people ourselves. I would like to
speak about just a few for a moment.
Beginning in the days of our Torah,
Miriam, Moses’ sister was a hero. She was
heroic even though Miriam does not hold the
prominent place in our collective memory
that her brothers Moses and Aaron do. One
was the ultimate leader of the
Israelites…clearly heroic in many ways, and
her other brother was the head priest. Yet,
while all the men in that early group of our
ancestry emphasized words, rules, and
sanctity, Miriam heralded a prophecy of
deeds. As the text tells us, Miriam took her
timbrel in hand and danced all night on the
shores of the sea. If she had a Myspace page
her profile would definitely say, “loves to
dance and sing.” Miriam taught our people to
dance and sing. She taught us to stand up
and shout about our joy to be alive. Miriam
is a hero.
There are other biblical characters who
were heroic as well. There is the famous
instance of the daughters of Zelophachad,
whose family had no living male heirs…so
when Moses set out to divide up the
land…they were in danger of being
overlooked. The daughters of Zelophachad
went to Moses and petitioned for a change in
the process. And they ultimately did receive
a portion of the Land. They were heroes
because, as Rashi the famous Medieval French
commentator taught, they saw that which
Moses could not. They stood up for the
rights of the less fortunate. They did not
remain complacent while the laws and systems
that worked for the majority left others in
the dark. They spoke up when it mattered and
made sure the fragile minority was cared
for.
But our Jewish heroes don’t only come in
the form of Biblical characters. We have
many examples…and I’ll share just a few
more. Louis Brandeis was the first Jewish
Supreme Court Justice. When he was nominated
to the court by President Wilson, a four
month confirmation hearing ensued because he
was a Reformist Lawyer, and a Jew, and
Congress worried he would work to shift the
nature of the court. Wilson stood by
Brandeis because he knew that Brandeis had a
rare comprehension of reality that combined
legal and social understanding. He was
finally confirmed in 1916. He was an ardent
Zionist who taught his fellow citizens that
it was American to be a Zionist. Brandeis
stuck to his convictions even when what he
knew to be right…was controversial.
And there are so many others. There are
the inventors and scientists who have
captured an understanding of the universe…of
Creation…and worked to improve it even
more…Like Albert Einstein. Social work as we
know it today has it origin in countless,
nameless women who had a vision of helping
others through organizations like
Neighborhood House which today still serves
many cities. There have been the socially
aware artists whose work still is a part of
the national landscape today like Emma
Lazarus who’s most famous work is the sonnet
etched at the base of the Statue of Liberty.
And certainly Irving Berlin made a
difference with his compositions. There have
been athletes who could be held up high for
what seemed like small decisions including
Sandy Kolfax…not a terribly observant
Jew…but one who sat out a very important
baseball game because it was Yom Kippur.
And the then there are the people who
have all but vaporized into historical
obscurity. I wrote my rabbinic thesis about
a man named Rabbi Joseph Rauch from
Louisville, Kentucky. Most people today have
never heard of him…but he spent all day,
everyday trying to make the world a better
place…teaching by example…He used to preach
that you if you were going to have an
opinion about something…you had better back
it up with action and tzedakah.
I do not think the answer is to grab a
timbrel and to dance in the street like
Miriam…although the world might be a more
joyful place if people did that. Are we
really supposed to learn from these examples
that we should live a more biblical life?
That we should be more like the stars of the
Torah or subsequent Jewish History? Maybe?
What if we merely walked away knowing that
values do not just ebb and flow…heroic
characteristics suggest a moral standard and
that is what makes them heroic…you can count
of them…you can build on them…you can make
them part of who you are.
III. Just this summer, a new Superman
movie was released called, “Superman
Returns.” Not so many people saw it… it did
not do so well in the box office. But those
who did see it might have noticed a small
subplot in the movie. Superman disappeared
for several years. He went back to his home
planet of Krypton. While he was gone the
world went on without him. In his absence,
Lois Lane, won a Pulitzer Prize for a column
she created called, “The World Doesn’t Need
Superman.” I am sure it is not great for the
morale of a superhero to find out that you
are really not needed. But maybe that is a
good thing for us humans. The world doesn’t
need superman because we are all here.
If we look around…really look around and
consider the people we encounter each day…we
are surrounded by heroes. All around us
there are people who do heroic things
everyday. There are those who give of their
time in myriad ways to Social Action working
to make the lot of others better. There are
people who continue to care for the needs of
those in our community who are ill, or
homebound, or just in need of human
companionship. There are people who, in a
world that is making it ever more difficult,
still strive to be menches, and to raise
children who are menches.
B’makom she ain anashim….l’hishtadel ish.
In a place where there are no humans…aim to
be a human. Isn’t that our goal? To create a
community of menches? Even though many of
the famous comic book superheros were
created by Jews, maybe we should be issuing
posters and collecting cards of heroes
called Menchman or Menchwoman. He or she
would be dressed in plain clothes and look
like many people sitting here in the
sanctuary because we are surrounded by
menches. We need not look to the newsstand
for our models of heroism. We need to focus
on the members of our own community…so that
we can raise the next generation of Jewish
heroes…focused on saving the world from the
forces of evil…just like Superman…but with
the powers of science, medicine, intellect,
love and kindness. These are Torah too.
We all have the opportunity to be heroes.
We are all present. Just a few moments ago
we read from the book of Deuteronomy. Its
words called out that eternal reminder that
we are here, just as we were at Mt. Sinai,
to receive the Torah. Atem Nitzavim Hayom…Kul’chem.
You are standing here today…all of you. No
one is left out of the list. We all have the
same access. That same section of Torah ends
with the proclamation that the Torah is not
in Heaven…is in our mouths now…and its
contents are not too hard for us to achieve.
Even the rabbis in the Talmud agreed upon
discussing the section of the Torah…it is no
secret and it is ours…as a guide from which
we must go forth and do God’s will.
Revelation is ongoing. We were all at Mt.
Sinai…because Mt. Sinai is a state of mind.
We can all be there right now if we listen
to the ideals our Torah contains.
Every culture has its own understanding
of what a hero is and does. Most cultures
around the world understand heroism to be
associated with strength…physical outer
strength. Our rabbis of the Mishnah
understood heroism differently. In Pirke
Avot, they answered the question of “Ezehu
Gibor - who is a hero?” by stating, “A hero
is one who overcomes – his or her
yester/temptations.” As Rabbi Joseph
Telushkin has pointed out…there is therefore
no objective measure for heroism. We each
have our own challenges and we each meet
them and struggle with them differently. In
most cultures then…heroism is greatly
valued, but only applies to a select few and
is not tested very often. In Judaism,
heroism is a possibility for everyone…and it
is a characteristic that is tested every
minute of every day.
Today is Yom Kippur. We all stand here
together in the quest to be better people.
To be the people were indeed meant to be. We
each have the inner strength and character
to be heroic. We each have the opportunity
everyday to face the challenges of our inner
inclinations and to work together to repair
this world. We each can be good examples for
the young people in our community. Being
menches, exhibiting kindness…we can bridge
the generations with the values handed down
to us from the generations that came
before…values that do not ebb and
flow…values that sustain us with muscle and
strength and ethics and Jewish values…values
that do not let us sit still in the face of
evil and adversity. Values that guide us to
make the world better…to make the existence
of others better. Heroic Values. We each can
be cultural heroes…we do not need to look to
the media for how we ought to live. We need
to just look at one another. Together we can
bring the forces of good to the surface. The
world does need Superman…but not the
fictional character…the character Nietzshe
described…people who use creativity and
integrity to transcend good and evil. May
these people, be the people we emulate in
the year to come. |